When you are having a day. You need someone to do a quick vent with. The ones who get “it” are the ones who have kiddos and are crazy busy. You don’t want to bother them. You know they are changing a pooh diaper, calming a tantrum, snuggling on the couch with a lil one who just fell asleep in their arms. You need to find your “Momma Ally”. Someone to quickly text/call and in 5 minutes or less vent your motherhood frustrations for the day. Just someone to quickly remind you, “it’s not you.” Someone to quickly change your mood, so you can jump back on the positive motherhood horse and go on with your day. We love motherhood but there are rough momma minutes. Your “Momma Ally” needs to be on the same page. She is your no-pressure friend. The one you don’t feel you need to have a clean house for. The one you could tell anything to and she is going to tell you something far worse to make you feel better! There is no competition between you and your “Momma Ally”. Just laughs. She is the one you could tell anything to. You need to be sending each other funny text messages and pictures to make each other laugh. You need to be sharing your rough times so she can share hers. Save a funny or uplifting picture you saw on Facebook or Pinterest just so you can be prepared to send it to her when you know she is having a day. A little laughter from a friend when you are having a rough momma minute can make all the difference in the world! A BIG “Thank you” to my Momma Allies. I have two. They know who they are 😉 I appreciate you both and our chats more than you will ever know.